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Inspired by Flint, Middle-Schoolers write to the SF Public Utilities Commission

Date: 
Monday, September 17, 2018

Fifth- and sixth-graders at San Francisco Friends School recently wrote to the San Francisco Public Utilities Commission (SFPUC) with concerns about water quality in our city. The students were inspired to take action after reading an article about the water crisis in Flint, MI; learning more about the injustice that Flint residents faced as they have fought for clean water and answers; and discovering that Mari Copeny, also known as "Little Miss Flint," became a nationally-respected activist at the age of eight after writing her own letter to President Barack Obama.

Our students expressed their concerns to Juliet Ellis, chief strategy officer at the SFPUC, and raised questions about how crises like the one in Flint happen. Ellis responded to each student individually with a hand-written letter, reassuring them of the safety of San Francisco's drinking water, and lauding their interest in the health of not only themselves, but also the community at large. When discussing their activism and Ellis's response, the students were clearly energized. 

"I felt sad [when I learned about Flint], because they didn't have tap water. And it made me feel like I was very lucky to be able to drink my tap water here," said Eli. "It made me feel kind of scared—because what happened there, could happen to us. We never think, hey, our water could become [unsafe]," agreed Mia. Rami closed the discussion with an important take-away: "Something I learned, is that even when you're younger, you can still make a difference."

Friends School Students' Talk with Supervisor Leads to ADA Park Improvement

Date: 
Wednesday, May 23, 2018
The new ADA swing in Miraloma Park

Last year, then-seventh grade Friends School students Zeke, Simone, Riley, Summer, and Sophia were able to sit down with San Francisco District 7 Supervisor Norman Yee to discuss an issue that was very dear to them, accessible playgrounds for children with disabilities (Riley wrote about it here this past December). 

Their efforts paid off. After meeting with our students, Supervisor Yee garnered additional neighborhood support from the Miraloma Park Improvement Club for the playground changes. His office then worked with SF Rec and Park to have the ADA swing installed.

"I was impressed with the students’ presentation. They were well informed, prepared, and shared personal stories about the impact this improvement would have on their families," Supervisor Yee said. "Civic engagement by youth is critical and I am proud of the students at SF Friends School for their advocacy and the measurable impact it has had on our City."

Guybe Slangen, Friends School's Director of Community Engagement, said, "Way to go Zeke, Simone, Riley, Summer, and Sophia! Your voice matters!"

 

Headed to High School: An Update from the Transition Team

News Type: 
Date: 
Friday, May 11, 2018

Watching Riley R. welcome middle schoolers from around the city to our first Youth Summit highlighted the sheer energy and motivation possessed by this year’s graduating class. They are activists! Take a swing through the eighth grade morning meeting space and look at their work from this year. The learning they’ve done around the topic of those experiencing homelessness this year is deep and impactful. They’ve also taken notable action around gun control and #metoo. These teenagers have stepped outside themselves over and over again to engage in real world issues even throughout the long, stressful and emotional process of applying to high school—which is very much focussed on “self.”  Now it’s May, everyone has a place to go to high school, and the class is still planning more work; a subset will present what they’ve learned about city government’s role in homelessness crisis to the third grade and all will accompany kindergarten buddies to Mission Neighborhood Health Center at the end of the month.

San Francisco is unique among major cities in terms of the high school landscape. New York, LA, DC, and Chicago, for example, have many more K-12 independent schools and more parochial options. The capriciousness of our public school lottery system can be very stressful for families. Asking a 13 or 14 year-old to manage the high school application process in San Francisco while also juggling school, sports, activities, friends, and family, is a gargantuan expectation. To help manage the load, parents are essential partners. Seventh grade parents are just beginning the process now by completing questionnaires about their child(ren) and their hopes for high school. A few weeks ago, seventh graders took their practice SSAT and on May 17, they’ll gather to hear wisdom from a panel of eighth graders and their parents about their experience with the process.

This year’s SFFS graduates will attend 24 different schools next fall. The list includes:

Bay
Branson
Brightworks
Convent of the Sacred Heart
College Preparatory School
Drew
Galileo High School
Head Royce
International
Lick-Wilmerding
Lowell
Marin Academy
Marin Catholic
Mission High School
Nueva
Sacred Heart Cathedral
Saint Ignatius
San Domenico
Stuart Hall
Tamalpais High School
The Marin School
University
Urban
Westtown

Congratulations to the members of our eighth graduating class. At Friends, it means so much more to be an eighth grader than just applying to high school. The legacy of this class will be their ability to “let their lives speak” in such a powerful way in their final year at SFFS. We could not be more proud of the students who will represent SFFS at their chosen high schools.

 

Mysteries of the Unseen World: Thinking Like an Artist/Scientist

Date: 
Wednesday, May 9, 2018

“The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and science. So the unknown, the mysterious is where art and science meet.”
~Albert Einstein
 

In mid-march, we attended the National Art Educators Association (NAEA) conference hosted in Seattle, WA. This is the ninth year that we attended, and the third time that we co-presented at the conference, which has been an amazing opportunity not just to share the unique approach to the arts at SFFS with independent schools from across the country, but to gain inspiration from other visual art instructors as well. While at the conference, we celebrated ten years of collaborative work at SFFS by presenting a hands-on workshop that illuminates how the visual arts and scientific inquiry are intertwined by sharing two interdisciplinary units—one third grade, the other seventh and eighth grade.

Integration is a natural way in which we experience the world. True integration in the classroom serves all of the disciplines involved and makes connections to ‘real life’ experience outside of the walls of our school. As in our classroom/studios, participants in our (sold out) workshop were introduced to a series of artmaking routines to investigate a question that is relevant to both scientists and artists. Those attending the workshop came away with a clearer sense of how this approach builds understanding in both disciplines while providing experiences that invigorate a spirit of inquiry, connecting to the real world of artists and scientists.

Here is a small sample of the brilliant student work that we showcased at the conference:

Three examples from the third grade of a two-minute warm up drawing.
The prompt: Draw yourself as an artist/scientist.

 

Seventh/eighth grade art inspired by the Hubble Telescope images.
Students used embroidery in order to focus on line, shape, and patterns. 

 

More seventh/eighth grade art inspired by the Hubble Telescope.

 

Third grade computer virus drawings. Prompts: What is the story of our computer virus?
What kind of computer virus will we craft? 



 
A closer look at third grade computer virus drawings.

 

A closer look at third grade computer virus sculptures.

 

Staffing News: New Faces at SFFS

Date: 
Tuesday, May 8, 2018

As we begin the season of lifting up the comings and goings of our staff and faculty, we hope you will embrace our spirit of growth and community. We encourage you to help us in welcoming in full force the new teachers and learners who will soon be joining us:

Clarissa Ko, K-8 dance and drama: Clarissa comes to Friends with a depth and breadth of experiences in the dance world. Clarissa has been teaching within Pre K-12 schools in the Bay Area since 2014. She’s a graduate of University of San Francisco where she studied Performing Arts and Social Justice. It was this focus that drew her to SFFS where she’s eager to explore opportunities to promote social change via critical thinking and reflection, and build community through empathy and action. Clarissa is also a MSEd Learning Design and Technology candidate at Purdue University. She currently teaches with ODC’s Youth and Teen Program and HeartBeat Dance Academy. In 2016 Clarissa founded Five Feet Dance, a modern dance company. She is excited to join the Friends School community to build upon the firm foundation laid by Hilary, as well as find innovative ways for curriculum integration, movement exploration, and work collaboratively with colleagues.


Tanya Cotom, LS Spanish: We are happy to report that after an unexpected departure of our beloved Karina (we are losing her to Peru!) we made haste in our search for a new spanish teacher in the lower school. After several applicants were considered, lessons shared and conversations had, we have are thrilled to report that Tanya Cotom will be  staying on in this new role and responsibility. We are all typically very discerning about why or when a new teacher might be considered, but Tanya simple rose to the top among our contenders. We see such potential to grow a gifted young teacher who has proven herself in several realms; over summers teaching with Horizons, three years on our lower school team, as someone who knows our school community deeply, who is familiar with our programs widely, and our spanish program in LS particularly. Tanya is a native speaker, with a self expressed and confident passion to take this next step in her career. She is an incredibly hard working and bright community member, with a masters degree in elementary education. She has been our lead TA lead clerk for two years, showing leadership, and high emotional intelligence as well. She feels drawn to using what she has learned, and teaching the language she loves, as an expression of her true voice as a teacher. We are lucky in so many ways, and are currently planning her on-boarding and summer professional development and transition with Karina; we are quite sure she will enhance the wonderful work the spanish department has been doing, and sustain, enhance and honor the program. I have such faith in this team.

Please welcome her into her new role when you can this week, hopefully in person.


Jenn Cusworth, Middle School Humanities Teacher: Jenn is excited to move to the Bay Area and join the SFFS community! After living most of her life on the East Coast, she's looking forward to more sunshine and less snow. Jenn graduated with a BA in Linguistics from the University of Massachusetts Amherst in 2011, and went on to receive an MS in Education from Bank Street College of Education in NYC. It was here that she developed her passion for teaching project-based, progressive pedagogy. After graduate school, Jenn moved back to Western Massachusetts, where she worked as a 5th and 6th grade teacher at the Greenfield Center School (the birthplace of Responsive Classroom) and grew her skills and appreciation for socially and emotionally responsive learning environments. Surrounded by the valleys and mountains of New England, Jenn loved the opportunities for outdoor education: hiking, rock climbing, and just playing in the woods! For the past year, Jenn has been back in NYC, teaching 6th grade history at Brooklyn Friends School. Here, she was able to grow her passions for social justice-based learning opportunities. Jenn sees education as a form of activism and loves connecting history with our world today. Soon, she will live in the Bay with her partner and two dogs, and she can't wait to continue on in a Quaker school at SFFS. 


Neal Donovan, Middle School TA: Neal was first introduced to Quaker pedagogy at Brooklyn Friends School, where he spent a year as a substitute and after school teacher. Upon returning home to the Bay Area in 2015, he sought out a school with similar values and found SFFS, which he has grown to love for its emphasis on teaching empathy and conflict resolution. He has worked at SFFS as an ED teacher, substitute, and spent a year as a kindergarten TA. He is a graduate of Oberlin College. When he isn’t at school, Neal spends his time playing guitar and making ambient electronic music. He also enjoys hiking and camping in California’s many beautiful landscapes.


Christopher Gonzalez-Crane, Middle School Humanities Teacher: Christopher is a native of San Francisco. After graduating from The Urban School, Christopher moved to Minnesota to attend Carleton College.  He graduated in 2002 with a degree in English and American literature.  After working for a year in New York City in publishing, Christopher began teaching middle and high school English at The Thomas Jefferson School in Concepcion, Chile. After moving back to San Francisco in 2004, Christopher was a middle school teacher at The Children’s Day School where he taught traditional black and white photography, assisted with the high school application process and developed the middle school study hall program.  For the last nine years, Christopher has been teaching and studying in London.  In 2010, he received a Masters of Research from The London Consortium. He is currently in the final stages of his PhD in Humanities and Cultural studies. While in London, he taught BA level humanities and critical studies at The University of London. Christopher has ​specialist​ knowledge in English and American Literature, photography, cultural studies and social history. His own academic work is concerned with the historical origins of self-help culture in the American West. He has a particular interest in the construction of the responsible, ethical self. Christopher is excited to bring digital archives alive in his classroom. Christopher is delighted to be returning to San Francisco and joining the SFFS community. 


Dianne Hurvitz, Lower School Music Specialist: Dianne is thrilled to be joining the SFFS community! She is a New England native; she has lived and taught in the Midwest, the Rockies, and the Northeast, and is now having a wonderful time settling here in California. After earning a BA in music from Oberlin College, where she played any and all musical instruments she could get her hands on, Dianne then spent time in the worlds of musical theater production and filmmaking. A love of working with students, from working as a ski instructor to conducting the local town band, inspired Dianne to return to Oberlin to earn a Masters in Education. She began her classroom teaching experience as a kindergarten teacher in Boston, MA. Dianne was then able to combine her love of teaching and music as the founding music teacher for a K-8 charter school. She was drawn to the Bay Area by friends and family, and the opportunity to help build the Khan Lab School as the music and wellness teacher. Dianne is passionate about coaching students to embrace their curiosity, wonder, and imagination, and to foster a lifelong love of learning. She is so excited to join the music department at SFFS, and eagerly looking forward to meeting students as well as the community!


Alissa Kinney-Moe, Director of Communications: On June 6, we'll welcome Alissa Kinney-Moe as our new Director of Communications. Alissa is no stranger to schools: she started her career as a high school history teacher at Emma Willard School in upstate NY, and later found her true calling in school communications, first at the Nightingale-Bamford School in New York and later at University High School here in San Francisco. After a brief stint in Atlanta, Alissa is looking forward to returning to the Bay Area with her husband and two young sons. 


Andrea Snyder, Second Grade Teacher: We are very excited to be welcoming Andrea Snyder to our SFFS community, and to the Lower School team as our new second grade lead teacher. Andrea will be working alongside Anhvu Buchanan next year as they build on the great work that the team has developed. Andrea is a seasoned educator, having taught many grades from fifth to kindergarten. She has been working at international schools for the past seven years in London and most recently Hanoi, where she further developed ways of bringing peaceful conflict resolution, global perspectives, stewardship, and responsibility to the classroom, which ties in beautifully with Quaker values. Originally from Philadelphia, she has also lived in Nashville and Atlanta, and taught for several years at Packer Collegiate School in NYC. Andrea was really searching for the “right next step” for her career, and a home in San Francisco and at Friends felt right, almost right away. She sees herself as an advocate for children, and we know that her deep pedagogical background will contribute so much to our team. Andrea loves fresh air, hiking and baking, so we are confident she has made the best choice in coming to SF. Moving here from Hanoi this summer is no small feat, so we are already working on helping her land on her feet once she arrives. We know she will be a great addition to our school and community.

Staffing News: Saying Goodbye at SFFS

Date: 
Tuesday, May 8, 2018

Each year, we receive news that we must say goodbye to some of our beloved staff and faculty. Saying goodbye always reminds us that Friends School is a learning community that encourages a growth mindset in its members, including members of the professional community. Cultivating an active, reflective, and evolving professional practice for teachers is especially important to us. 

It is among our greatest strengths as an institution to encourage risk taking, lifelong learning, and growth in both our students and ourselves; to this end, when teachers or staff decide to move on, we celebrate them and their journeys and thank them for their contributions to the SFFS community, even when we will miss them.

As we begin the season of lifting up the comings and goings of our staff and faculty, we hope you will embrace our spirit of growth and community. We also encourage you to help us honor and celebrate those that may be moving on, while welcoming in full force the new teachers and learners who will soon be joining us.

 


From Tracie Mastronicola, Academic Dean: 

Karina Diaz, Lower School Spanish Teacher: On any given day if you were to stroll into Karina Diaz's second floor classroom at around 3:20 you might find her passed out on the floor. Why? You would be too if you just spent the last six hours dancing, singing, and speaking rapid-fire Spanish with kids. No, this is not a Zumba class, this is lower school Spanish—energetic learning filled with joy, movement, and tireless engagement. Karina embodies more energy in her pinky finger than most of us can muster with all of our might. Karina's thoughtful approach to curriculum, her passion for teaching Spanish language and culture to young students, as well as her infectious energy, will be deeply missed by all of us here at Friends. We are grateful for her contributions to our community and for making Spanish a fun, full-body experience for our lower-schoolers. We will be saying adios to Karina Diaz at the end of this school year as she prepares to move back to Peru. Karina is excited to be closer to her family once again, and perhaps start a career as a Zumba instructor (just kidding!). We wish her the best.


From Jennifer Arnest, Lower School Head: 

Jessie Radowitz, Second Grade Teacher: Jessie Radowitz came upon us a few years back, and we all knew immediately that we had to find a way to reel her in to work at Friends. Via Skype from New York, she charmed us with her thoughtful, calm, but clear and authentic approach to thinking about the pedagogy and purpose of education. From her work in the south with Teach for America, and a highly revered career pursuing her Masters degree at Columbia Teachers College, Jessie has brought to us, in spades, more than we could have imagined.

She is kind, connected to children, organized, clear and supportive with parents and colleagues alike. She is a sometimes quiet, but very big thinker; when she has something to say we know it has been considered—she does not waste words. With her eye always leaning towards social justice and Quaker values, she has elevated her work and engaged us all. Jessie has navigated the most difficult passage in losing her mom to cancer so quickly while she has been among us. Now, she has to go back east, with her partner, Jake, to be closer to her father, who lives In D.C. The only single happy news for us with this departure is that Jessie has landed a job at Germantown Friends School in Philadelphia teaching first grade. This means we will be in touch and close in our missions across the country, and when we visit Quaker Schools in Philly, and Germantown (which is often), we can see Jessie and share ideas. We are determined to stay connected, and Jessie will always be part of the SFFS community.


From Tracie Mastronicola, Academic Dean:

Kent Jue, Music Teacher: Kent looks like he is 30 years old himself, yet he’s actually finishing up his 30th year of teaching choral, string and general music classes to independent and public school students! From the traditional SFFS kindergarten song “This Little Light of Mine” to the 7th and 8th grade chorus elective group lending spirit and gravitas to our concerts and graduation, Kent has spent his last seven years at Friends imparting energy, focus, and a deep understanding of the language of music to our students.

Join us in acknowledging Kent’s commitment to music education and in celebrating his next step. Kent will assume the Executive Director role for the Ragazzi Boys Chorus, an internationally recognized group with 30 years of experience offering a complete musical education program that's designed to take boys from their first exposure to the art of choral singing through a full course of vocal instruction. Kent has been engaged with Ragazzi for over 15 years, and he will step into his new role in August 2018. Congratulations, Kent!


From Andrew Salverda, Middle School Head:

Raymond Artis, Middle School Humanities Teacher: We’re sad to be saying goodbye to Raymond Artis, who is moving back east with his partner, Lamercie. Raymond arrived at Friends just prior to the 2013-2014 school year, interested in subbing and learning more about our school. We were immediately struck by his ability to serve in a variety of classes and with students of many different ages. He distinguished himself with his demeanor, tone, and curiosity to learn more about Quaker education. Students appreciated his warmth and supportive presence; he quickly became our “go to” sub in the middle school. The following year, Raymond moved into serving as a humanities teacher to one fifth grade section and an assistant to the other teachers at that grade level. In this capacity, he came to know the fifth graders very well and was the person with the perhaps best knowledge of the grade as a community. We were eager to offer Raymond a full time job teaching two fifth grade humanities sections and serving as an advisor.

In the years since, Raymond has made myriad contributions to Friends, and had an immeasurable impact on the students with whom he’s worked. In addition to helping to bring better alignment and articulation to the fifth grade humanities curriculum, Raymond helped reboot Affinity Groups in the middle school, modeled activism and participation in issues of social justice ,and spoke in sessions of the Equity and Inclusion Committee's "At the Table" events about Black Lives Matter and talking with kids about race. Raymond elevated our faculty’s discourse around race by facilitating a book group for faculty around Ta'Nahisi Coates's book Between the World and Me. Raymond co-clerked the Equity and Inclusion Committee at Friends, which has tackled meaningful work because of his leadership.

Raymond has proven to be a vital voice of Quaker integrity. He often asked the question everyone was thinking in a meeting, and became a trusted sounding board for colleagues, especially adults of color, in our professional community. He traveled to China with Friends students and will forever be the all-time Pirate Waiter champion on the Pinnacles trip.

We are deeply grateful for all Raymond has done and been at Friends. We wish him well and hope he visits often.

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Jodi Pickering, Middle School Humanities Teacher: Jodi Pickering is moving on after eleven years at Friends. She was one of the first two teachers in the SFFS middle school and during her time at Friends has devoted herself fully to her work with students, parents and her colleagues. Jodi was a key architect in the creation of the Friends middle school, and has served in a variety of different roles and posts during her tenure: humanities teacher, advisory coordinator, learning specialist, admissions associate, futsal coach, trip leader, double dutch rope turner, lyricist, listener, and Friend.

Jodi has designed curricula for every middle schooler at Friends and co-taught with numerous colleagues as our middle school took off and grew. She has been a trusted voice of pedagogical and Quaker wisdom, consistently keeping students and their growth at the center of her work. Jodi was an early pioneer on the Nicaragua trip, and has accompanied students on the trip for eight consecutive years.

Jodi embodies the values we hold dear at Friends in the way she approaches her work and relationships with students and colleagues, and she models the importance of living one’s ideals.  She created an annual “Let your Life Speak Symposium” in 2013 and was the first recipient of the Cathy Hunter Fund for the Future in 2015, during which time she made pilgrimages to the Pendle Hill Quaker Retreat Center in Pennsylvania and its namesake in England, where George Fox, founder of Quakerism, said he was called by the voice of God. She began writing a young adult novel during this time, which she finished during a mini-sabbatical the following year. Jodi’s energy and flashes of insight encourage us to trust ourselves and to manifest our visions. As a co-developer of the Professional Growth program for teachers at Friends, Jodi took many classes at Stanford during her summers, and developed a fruitful letter exchange for our middle school students with their peers in Oklahoma City in the wake of the 2016 presidential election. Always one to galvanize the group, Jodi helped to start the faculty softball team (named “George” in honor of George Fox) and co-wrote the SF Friends School song (below) with music teacher Garth Applegate.

Jodi has taught us to rally and to reflect, to jump in and to wait at the edge; to listen and to find the courage to speak. For all of her seriousness of purpose and the way that she has undeniably walked the Quaker talk, Jodi is a child at heart. She has demonstrated that humor and a love of laughter can build an understanding beyond words. Her encouragement of her students and colleagues to “choose joy” will be one of her many abiding legacies. Jodi’s impact on Friends has been significant and her absence will felt by the students, parents and colleagues who know her.  We hope that she stays in our orbit.

"Simple Joys"
A small school in the Castro
Into the Mission grew
All along Committed
To the SPICES through and through

We honor one another
And serve all with respect
We may not all be Quakers
But as Friends we do connect
Simple joys and peacefulness
Humility and pride
We speak into the silence
Our voices not denied

When we find ourselves in the place just right
We've found we've done our best
'Tis a gift to be a part of
Good 'ol S-F-F-S


From Guybe Slangen, Director of Community Engagement:

Hilary Palanza, Dance/Drama Teacher: For the past four years Hilary Palanza has led our K-8 dance program. From first graders dancing with our neighbors at the Francis of Assisi Community to seventh graders choreographing their own dance creations, Hilary has taught a broad range of students and styles. She carried on the lovely Friends School tradition of our end-of-the-year buddy dance with Kindergartners and our graduating eighth graders. Hilary has also been one of the few that works with every student in our school! She adopted a program that was still young, and has added her own flare and energy to it, helping it grow and flourish.

We’re deeply grateful for her collaboration in working with multiple teams and teachers, her flexibility with spaces and schedules, and her commitment to bringing out the dancer in all of us.

For the past year she has also been pursuing a Masters in public policy at UC Berkeley’s Goldman School of Public Policy, focusing particularly on how to support and advocate for the arts. This passion has evolved into her next project where she’ll be working on her long-held dream to develop and open the first ever interactive dance museum!  Hilary shared, “I cannot help but feel overwhelmed with gratitude for the San Francisco Friends School. The opportunity to articulate and grow the dance program and teach such a wide range of abilities and ages continues to help me grow as an artist, teacher, and friend.”  

This is a bittersweet good bye. We’re sad to see her leave Friends School after this school year ends, but excited to hear about her big plans. We wish her the best in her next chapter, and have launched a search to fill her dancing shoes. 


From Marlene Sloger, Director of Development: 

Amity Bacon, Director of Communications: As many of you know, Amity joined us in the summer of 2016, and has been the primary point of contact for all school communications. In addition to helping families stay up to date on school events and happenings, Amity also played a central role in revamping our school website, streamlining our Circle Back newsletter, and launching the Friends blog. She will be heeding the siren call of Portland, OR later this summer. 

A tribute to middle school humanity teachers Raymond Artis and Jodi Pickering

News Type: 
Date: 
Wednesday, May 2, 2018

Raymond Artis 

We’re sad to be saying goodbye to Raymond Artis, who is moving back east with his partner, Lamercie. Raymond arrived at Friends just prior to the 2013-2014 school year, interested in subbing and learning more about our school. We were immediately struck by his ability to serve in a variety of classes and with students of many different ages. He distinguished himself with his demeanor, tone, and curiosity to learn more about Quaker education. Students appreciated his warmth and supportive presence; he quickly became our “go to” sub in the middle school. The following year, Raymond moved into serving as a humanities teacher to one fifth grade section and an assistant to the other teachers at that grade level. In this capacity, he came to know the fifth graders very well and was the person with the perhaps best knowledge of the grade as a community. We were eager to offer Raymond a full time job teaching two fifth grade humanities sections and serving as an advisor.

In the years since, Raymond has made myriad contributions to Friends, and had an immeasurable impact on the students with whom he’s worked. In addition to helping to bring better alignment and articulation to the fifth grade humanities curriculum, Raymond helped reboot Affinity Groups in the middle school, modeled activism and participation in issues of social justice ,and spoke in sessions of the Equity and Inclusion Committee's "At the Table" events about Black Lives Matter and talking with kids about race. Raymond elevated our faculty’s discourse around race by facilitating a book group for faculty around Ta'Nahisi Coates's book Between the World and Me. Raymond co-clerked the Equity and Inclusion Committee at Friends, which has tackled meaningful work because of his leadership.

Raymond has proven to be a vital voice of Quaker integrity. He often asked the question everyone was thinking in a meeting, and became a trusted sounding board for colleagues, especially adults of color, in our professional community. He traveled to China with Friends students and will forever be the all-time Pirate Waiter champion on the Pinnacles trip.

We are deeply grateful for all Raymond has done and been at Friends. We wish him well and hope he visits often.

 

Jodi Pickering

Jodi Pickering is moving on after eleven years at Friends. She was one of the first two teachers in the SFFS middle school and during her time at Friends has devoted herself fully to her work with students, parents and her colleagues. Jodi was a key architect in the creation of the Friends middle school, and has served in a variety of different roles and posts during her tenure: humanities teacher, advisory coordinator, learning specialist, admissions associate, futsal coach, trip leader, double dutch rope turner, lyricist, listener, and Friend.

Jodi has designed curricula for every middle schooler at Friends and co-taught with numerous colleagues as our middle school took off and grew. She has been a trusted voice of pedagogical and Quaker wisdom, consistently keeping students and their growth at the center of her work. Jodi was an early pioneer on the Nicaragua trip, and has accompanied students on the trip for eight consecutive years.

Jodi embodies the values we hold dear at Friends in the way she approaches her work and relationships with students and colleagues, and she models the importance of living one’s ideals.  She created an annual “Let your Life Speak Symposium” in 2013 and was the first recipient of the Cathy Hunter Fund for the Future in 2015, during which time she made pilgrimages to the Pendle Hill Quaker Retreat Center in Pennsylvania and its namesake in England, where George Fox, founder of Quakerism, said he was called by the voice of God. She began writing a young adult novel during this time, which she finished during a mini-sabbatical the following year. Jodi’s energy and flashes of insight encourage us to trust ourselves and to manifest our visions. As a co-developer of the Professional Growth program for teachers at Friends, Jodi took many classes at Stanford during her summers, and developed a fruitful letter exchange for our middle school students with their peers in Oklahoma City in the wake of the 2016 presidential election. Always one to galvanize the group, Jodi helped to start the faculty softball team (named “George” in honor of George Fox) and co-wrote the SF Friends School song (below) with music teacher Garth Applegate.

Jodi has taught us to rally and to reflect, to jump in and to wait at the edge; to listen and to find the courage to speak. For all of her seriousness of purpose and the way that she has undeniably walked the Quaker talk, Jodi is a child at heart. She has demonstrated that humor and a love of laughter can build an understanding beyond words. Her encouragement of her students and colleagues to “choose joy” will be one of her many abiding legacies. Jodi’s impact on Friends has been significant and her absence will felt by the students, parents and colleagues who know her.  We hope that she stays in our orbit.
 

"Simple Joys"

A small school in the Castro
Into the Mission grew
All along Committed
To the SPICES through and through

We honor one another
And serve all with respect
We may not all be Quakers
But as Friends we do connect
Simple joys and peacefulness
Humility and pride
We speak into the silence
Our voices not denied

When we find ourselves in the place just right
We've found we've done our best
'Tis a gift to be a part of
Good 'ol S-F-F-S

My talk with the mayor

Date: 
Thursday, May 3, 2018

Seated on a dark wooden bench in a dark wooden hall, my foot bounced up and down restlessly. My left hand held my crumpled page of questions, and in my right was a crushed paper cup that had once been filled with water. I kept checking the time on my phone: ‘What class was I missing now? How much work would I have to make up? When would…’ My questions were swept away as the double doors opened and the others sitting near me turned their heads. “Excuse me,” said the figure to me. “Are you ready?” “Yes,” I responded. Then I got up, and followed Mr. Derick Brown, assistant to the mayor of San Francisco, through the doors.

For several years, homelessness has been the focus of the eighth grade’s service work, and it’s opened the eyes of  my fellow eighth graders to all of the challenges people experiencing homelessness face. After Mayor Ed Lee died on December 12th, 2017, our grade looked into some of the top mayoral candidates’ plans to end homelessness. They ranged from developing neighborhoods in South San Francisco, to adding 1,500 housing units every year. But even with all this research, no one in the eighth grade had a direct connection to a politician to ask about the city’s plans right now. So, when our Director of High School Transition, Kristen Daniel, heard about the 10 minute chats that the interim mayor Mark Farrell was hosting, she rushed around telling us all to sign up.

Weeks later, when I found out that I was accepted to speak to the mayor, my immediate thought was to tell Kristen or Guybe (the Director of Community Engagement). With my computer in hand, I ran around the third floor to find someone, which is how Guybe ended up with my laptop under his nose just a few moments later. “Look, I got it!” I cried. After congratulations from my teachers and friends, I pulled out a piece of paper and, throughout the next couple days, stacked up questions to ask the mayor with input from my parents and friends.  

The morning of April 20th, when Derick Brown called me into the Mayor’s Office, my nervousness, which had been present throughout the week, had vanished and was replaced by determination to learn and enjoy the experience in the palm of my hand.

I was led into a large room with a round table big enough to sit 20, and Mark Farrell stood to shake my hand. After my mother took a photo of us, we sat down at the table. He asked me how old I was, where I went to school, and where I was going to school next year. With my carefully strategized questions, I segued into the discussion of homelessness.

I asked him what he thought the solution to homelessness was. “Housing, definitely,” he said.

“But how will you continue to develop areas and build up while preserving the history of certain neighborhoods, like the Castro?” I asked.

We talked about the beauty of the city, after I asked him how he wanted to preserve what people love about a city like San Francisco. We discussed the growing rent in both San Francisco and Oakland as middle class families have been drifting across the bay.

From there, our conversation drew to South San Francisco and the small towns in Silicon Valley. He told me that if towns like Brisbane were to develop, it would take a large weight off San Francisco’s shoulders because most of the influx in the population are people in the tech industry. If there was a well developed place for them to live, especially a location nearer to Apple, Fitbit or Netflix, there might be a less crowded/expensive city.

“Do you think they will ever agree to develop?” I asked.

“Not unless it’s by force,” he said.

But the city will soon need another place for middle income families and tech workers to live as the numbers continue to rise. From 2010 to 2016, San Francisco’s population grew by almost 60,000, and the housing costs skyrocketed. In the past month, 1,558 homes in San Francisco sold with price tags of $1 million or more.

Yet, small towns like Brisbane believe that developing their towns would change their image and take away what makes them unique, just as building a high rise in the middle of North Beach would take away from what makes our city so amazing.   

Our talk was flying by, and I had forgotten about the time and the worry that I would run out of questions to ask. I was building on what he said, drawing more information out, so I was stunned when Derick Brown stopped the conversation.

“Alright,” he said, “it’s time to wrap up.”



 

Seventh Graders Working to Help People Experiencing Addiction

Date: 
Wednesday, April 25, 2018

“San Francisco needs better safety for bikes! If we managed to create more bike lanes, there would be a big impact in injuries from bike riding.”

“I disagree. I think that the needles littering the streets and all those people addicted to drugs that aren’t getting the help they need are a greater problem than bike safety in our city.”

“Well, San Francisco also has a big problem with housing and housing costs. I mean, it’s getting REALLY expensive to live here, and that’s a humongous problem!”


And so it went, back and forth. After weeks of decision-making, the seventh graders had finally decided on a topic for their service project that benefited San Francisco in some way. We decided to focus on people experiencing opioid addiction and figure out ways to help them.

We split into groups, each with one student as our leader. Every group was given a topic that concerned people experiencing addiction, and we then set out to find a way to make a project out of our subject.

The first group, led by Lucas Dilworth, focused on the opioids’ effect on the brain. More specifically, they focused on the fact that when on drugs, the brain releases an overload of the chemical that is responsible for a person being happy—dopamine. Dopamine can be released when say, eating a pizza when you’re hungry, or playing a sport you really like. However, when on drugs, the brain releases an overload of dopamine, too much for your body to handle. Now, you feel a need to do the drugs because your body can’t satisfy you without the extreme amounts of dopamine that the drugs give. In response to this, you need to take more drugs to handle the need, and this turns into addiction. Their action plan was to create posters about this process, and put them out in the community for everyone to see, because not everyone is educated about this subject.

The second group, led by Titus Cabezas, were focused on Narcan, a nasal spray that can help prevent an overdose. After doing some research, they found out that not many people besides emergency services are educated in the use of Narcan. In a city like ours, with drug overdose problems happening every day, it would be especially important to get more people trained in the use of Narcan. The group decided on a place that they thought would be best for employees to be trained in Narcan. They chose Starbucks, because it’s a very popular spot and thought they could have an impact. They wrote letters to Starbucks CEO Kevin Johnson about this topic, and they suggested the idea.

Another group, led by Olivia Robbins, focused on raising awareness about the locations of places to help with ODs—hospitals, Walgreens, and other places where you could get help if you needed it. They thought this was important because so many people who need help don’t know where to find it, and if they did they would be so much better informed. The group made maps disclosing locations where people could get the help they need and deserve.

Another group, led by Adelaide Tranel, was focusing on the different kinds of treatment for drug addiction. After doing some research, they found out that a great way to get people off of drugs is to get them a pet, because then the person knows that they have to have better self control in order to take care of their pet. They collaborated with the Ohloff organization to learn more about how the effect of a pet can really help people experiencing addiction, taking their input and putting it into their own research.

One group that Sonia Esteva led focused on children in families with addicted members. After doing some research, they decided to create a children’s coloring book for the kids of those currently in treatment or rehab. They collaborated with the Epiphany Center, an organization that takes care of kids while their parents are being treated, to make sure that their coloring book got distributed.

Hanna Wheeler’s group concentrated on needle disposal. They researched how dirty, used needles are extremely dangerous, especially if a different drug user then uses an already-used needle. They decided to make posters to educate people (both random pedestrians on the street and drug users) about the importance of needle disposal. The posters include a site that tells you nearby needle disposal places and its phone number, along with some other information.

So, the seventh grade has really been working hard this year to make a difference in the community. They’ve split up into different groups, come up with their own ideas, and executed an action plan successfully. They’ve shown the leadership and resolve that they need to have in this world, and will continue to use all of these abilities in the future. Next step: head to city hall to discuss these matters with their district supervisors!

Music teacher Kent Jue to join Ragazzi Boys Chorus

Date: 
Monday, April 23, 2018

Kent looks like he is 30 years old himself, yet he’s actually finishing up his 30th year of teaching choral, string and general music classes to independent and public school students!

From the traditional SFFS kindergarten song “This Little Light of Mine” to the 7th and 8th grade chorus elective group lending spirit and gravitas to our concerts and graduation, Kent has spent his last seven years at Friends imparting energy, focus, and a deep understanding of the language of music to our students.

Join us in acknowledging Kent’s commitment to music education and in celebrating his next step. Kent will assume the Executive Director role for the Ragazzi Boys Chorus, an internationally recognized group with 30 years of experience offering a complete musical education program that's designed to take boys from their first exposure to the art of choral singing through a full course of vocal instruction. Kent has been engaged with Ragazzi for over 15 years, and he will step into his new role in August 2018. Congratulations, Kent!


We are currently looking to fill Kent's role and will announce any staffing changes as soon as possible. Kent's position, and a few others, can be found on our hiring page

 

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